An erection is a normal physiological condition in older children. There can be no reason to panic. They talk to the boy about all the complications of growing up. Mothers are not advised to discuss intimate topics with their son. This leads to awkwardness and psychological trauma in the child on both sides. Early signs of arousal are not associated with puberty, their appearance may be the norm or the result of established pathologies.
The first signs of puberty
Not all parents know the age at which the penis rises in boys, especially mothers. The process usually begins at the age of 11-12, but there are minor differences.
The first thing a teenager notices is an enlarged penis.
Then join:
- uncontrolled erection;
- nightly emissions;
- sexual attraction to girls;
- erotic dreams and other signs.
It lasts for about 5 years as an adult. Testosterone, a male hormone, enters the bloodstream, leading to changes in the character and appearance of the teenager. The change in behavior is not surprising. Hormonal changes often make the young man aggressive and quick-tempered.
The final development of the reproductive system occurs at the age of 18, although many boys have had their first sexual intercourse much earlier. On average, this occurs between the ages of 13 and 16.
A teenage erection leads to the first pleasure of life, which is why most teenagers masturbate.
After the child is caught in an obsessive activity, the parents get confused - they read the morals, they make the child ridiculous. It can’t do that, it can ruin the relationship and cause serious damage to the guy’s psyche.
How does a young man change?
Moms and dads often wonder why a child’s behavior changes, and often not in the right direction. The guy is doing scandals, running away from home, locking himself up.
Parents suspect their boys of drug use and a relationship with bad company. Regular interrogation does not lead to good relationships and makes the growing child even more angry.
You can recognize the growth by hair growth:
- on the chest and face;
- armpit;
- in the field of the genitals.
During the period of hormonal adjustment, the voice becomes rough and the genitals grow.
Of course, the boy does not show his mother’s penis, adult men may notice such changes.
During growth, sperm begin to accumulate in the testicles. This can already lead to conception. Before this possibility arises, the boy must be aware of the intimate nuances and consequences of an unwanted pregnancy.
Bring an adult man, preferably a father, to the young man. If this is not possible, the guy studies the information on his own - in books, magazines, the internet.
The latter should be used with caution. A growing guy will definitely want to watch an intimate video. The actions of the pictures are different. By focusing on a particular video, a guy can radically change their views of adult life.
involuntary ejaculation
Adolescent erections are often accompanied by erotic dreams. Sufficient sperm accumulates in the testicles, coming out. The first wet dream scares the guys. They are afraid of criticism from their parents, they feel guilty about the soiled sheet.
The parents notice that the boy himself removed the bedding and loaded it into the washing machine. Neither mom nor dad should ask unnecessary questions, putting the guy in an awkward position. If an intimate topic hasn’t been opened yet, it’s time for Dad to explain the situation for a moment. It’s important to know at what age boys get up so they don’t miss out on important changes.
Young men often do not remember their dreams and do not understand why ejaculation occurred. Some consider it pathological.
Nocturnal emission in boys is a normal physiological condition in which sexual tension is relieved. Excess accumulated sperm leads to discomfort. While the man is not yet sexually active, the body itself empties the testicles.
This happens in adulthood, but unlike teenagers, an adult understands what is happening to him and does not feel embarrassed.
It is full of:
- the appearance of guilt in a teenager;
- psychological discomfort;
- loss of prestige;
- hostile relationship.
The young man will certainly appreciate the lack of interest in the appearance of erections and involuntary ejaculation.
Advice for moms and dads
You have to accept the fact of becoming an adult. It’s a natural process that had to start. You need to be tactful and friendly during this difficult time because a bad word can ruin your blood contact for a long time.
Moms and dads cannot convict sons of:
- uncontrolled erection and ejaculation;
- viewing intimate magazines;
- mood swings.
When you find a masturbating teenager, you have to keep quiet and pretend nothing happened, giving the child a chance to clean up. Plus, you don’t have to focus on yourself. Doctors do not have a unified position on this issue. Some consider pharyngeal emptying to be physiologically normal, others consider it immoral and unacceptable.
Parents cannot influence this process, and if a teenager wants to, he or she will always find an opportunity to retire.
The concept of morality must be introduced from an early age, it is perceived as an invasion of personal space during adulthood.
Erection at an early age
Signs of growing up in 6-8 year old boys confuse parents. They sometimes appear in first-year children. You often don't have to worry. This is happening.
The harmless causes are:
- tight underwear or uncomfortable diapers;
- bladder overflow;
- mechanical effect.
This:
- Congenital disorders of the urogenital system.
- Inflammatory processes in the intestines, bladder, testicles.
- Worm infections.
- Disorders of the central nervous system.
- Circulatory problems.
- Infection of the foreskin and others.
The diagnosis is often made during an initial examination by a pediatrician. Less frequently, ultrasound of the urogenital system should be performed, smears, blood tests, and so on.
Treatment is selected based on the results of the studies. Most often, a baby needs antibiotics, physiotherapy, and other things.
It is forbidden to act alone. Hot and cold compresses can severely harm a child, and medication distorts clinical symptoms and prevents rapid diagnosis.
- How old does the penis grow? many parents ask this question, worrying that everything is fine with their son's health. Similar questions arise in adult men who are dissatisfied with the size of their penis - they hope that growth will not stop until old age, the point is to follow certain rules.
How is the situation in reality: at what age does the penis grow, why does the growth of the organ stop, what determines the size and how to enlarge the penis in an adult man? We are now answering these questions.
Developmental stages of children
- First stage, intrauterine. The penis and scrotum develop in the fetus by 16 weeks, by which time the sex of the unborn child can be determined.
- Second stage, prepubertal. Before puberty begins, the boy's genitals are immature (infantile, i. e. childhood). In infants, the penis is only 1, 5-2, 5 cm, the head of the penis is not visible, the foreskin is narrowed (pediatric phytosis). Further growth of the penis is proportional to the growth of the boy.
- Third stage, puberty. With the onset of puberty (which occurs differently in different men - between the ages of 12 and 15), genital growth becomes more intense. There is an increase in the testicles, an increase in the penis. Every three years, the body adds an average of 3-4 cm. Growth is accompanied by other signs of puberty - a Adam's cob is formed, the sound is broken, and hair appears on the face and body.
Intense enlargement of the penis is seen in the first three years (up to about 15-18 years of age). In addition, the growth of the penis slows down (the maximum penis grows by 1 cm per year) and usually by the age of 19-21 the penis reaches its maximum thickness and length.
If a teenager is not doing well
What if the penis growth of a young man who started at puberty is inadequate? You don’t have to panic, the fact is that everyone changes differently. If there are no symptoms of maturation by the age of 15-16 and the genitals remain infantile, this is already a matter of serious concern - hormonal disorders may be the cause of genital malformations. penis.
Another question - what sizes can be considered normal? You don’t have to panic over adolescence because of the size - growth can be slow at first and then the penis can stretch 5-6 cm at a time. In children and adolescents, the minimum length of the penis is:
- 11 years of age - 4-6 cm (with a height of 142-148 cm);
- 14 years of age - 6-9 cm (with a boy height of 158-168 cm);
- 16 years of age - 7-9 cm (with a boy height of 165-172 cm);
- age 20 years - 9, 5-12 cm (174 cm in height).
The rigid penis of a mature man with a size of 9 cm or more is considered medically normal. For sizes 3 to 9 cm, there is a small penis. An anatomical anomaly of less than 3 cm is called a micropenis.
What affects the length
What determines the size of a man's penis? First, genetics. The presence of various diseases also has a great effect on the development of the boy's body. If a man has had complicated diseases of the reproductive or endocrine system as a child, it is likely to have a negative effect on the genitals. For example, with a 60% testosterone deficiency, the intensity of penile growth decreases.
Another important factor in the development of the penis is lifestyle. For example, nutrition can affect - you need enough building materials to build your body normally. Among the products made for the body of the developing boy are especially useful nuts (walnuts, almonds, pistachios), herbs (parsley, dill, cumin), garlic, asparagus, pomegranate, figs, dairy products, beef.
Parents need to be careful not to develop bad habits in their son: if a teenager starts drinking and smoking alcohol before the end of puberty, a slowdown in body development is guaranteed.
And what about adults?
Natural penile enlargement does not occur in men after puberty (18-21 years). The only thing is that in some people the development of the reproductive system is delayed and the maturation ends at the age of 25 - such cases are rare but still occur. If there is no delay, after the age of twenty, it is not worth expecting the penis to grow a little further.
True, there are artificial penis enlargement methods for men who cannot reconcile with the length of their dignity. These measures should be used in a situation of complete despair, as each of these methods has its own contraindications and side effects.
Among the most common methods of penis enlargement in adult men, it is worth noting:
- Hormonal drugs for penis growth (called growth hormones).
- Use of extenders (orthopedic device for stretching soft tissues). Gives an increase of 1-2 cm.
- Insertion of the implant into the intracavernal space of the penis.
- Ligamentotomy is a surgical enlargement of the penis with a reduction in the perineum.
- vacuum growth. The penis gets into the cylinder, from which the air is removed from the other end by suction.
- Brine injections. The sizing changes are only observed for a few months, after which the saline solution gradually disappears
It’s worth noting that the procedures listed are quite inconvenient because the man’s intimate zone is very sensitive. All of these methods are not recommended for cosmetic purposes, but when there are medical indications for penis enlargement (such as micropenis when a normal sex life is not possible).
If you still want to increase your masculinity, you can try special sprays and ointments, the composition of which has an irritating effect. Due to the increased blood flow and the resulting swelling, the penis appears visually larger by a few inches. The impact of such funds is short-term - usually a few hours.